Falling in love with someone we don’t love
In our society today, whether we admit it or not, we always fall in love with someone we can’t have. Probably he might be someone who’s too famous or someone who has someone else. And we often wonder what is really that thing that we don’t have that someone else has? But have you ever wondered, that there is also someone wondering what’s that thing they don’t have for you to still continue craving for someone else when they are already there? Why do we always think that it’s difficult to fall in love with them, when in fact they can show more attention, they can show more sincerity to each word, and they can show more initiative to each actions. And it’s just the physique that’s different.
Attention. For someone you don’t love, they are usually the people who can stand talking to you all day and night; even if you talk about just everything in the world or even if you talk about him. They remember every detail that sometimes you will just laugh with all astonishment enfolded. They also stare at you even before you walked pass him and someone has to snap in front of his eyes just so he can be back to reality. While for someone you love, you are the one doing all the things I had mentioned.
Words. For someone you don’t love, they are usually the people who always compliment you. They tell you how beautiful you are with all appreciation visible in their eyes. They tell you how wonderful is your attitude with all grace with every word they emphasize. They confess their feelings with all sincerity. They keep their promises with all sanity. While for someone you love, you are the one doing all the things I had mentioned.
Actions. For someone you don’t love, they are usually the people who make a lot of effort for you. They do surprises for you. They buy things for you unexpectedly. They bring you flowers. They buy you an expensive chocolate. They tell every one how much they appreciate you. While for someone you love, you are the one doing all the things I had mentioned.